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31 May 2010

So long Me-Made-May, hello summer sewing!

Me-Made-May no more. :(

With an 80-strong group of fabulous sewing, crafting ladies from all over the globe who I stalked even when I should've been grading or packing or sewing, Me-Made-May was an incredible experience. Even on the "lite" version, I learned a ton. It was one of those serendipitous things that came at the perfect time. I always think, when learning a new skill, that there comes that point when you must decide to go through the frustrating and rewarding process of getting good or settling with being merely adequate. Languages are like this for me. I get all excited about learning a new language but I always self-destruct when it comes to the work it takes to be fluent. At one point or another, I could carry on childish conversations in French, Mandarin, Spanish, and Tagalog.

Sewing, for a long time, was like that. I could sew adequately, anything with straight lines: curtains and pillows and tote bags. I'd started to re-consider sewing apparel (after dismal first attempts years ago!) and then I stumbled onto this amazing sewing community in the blogosphere. Then Me-Made-May came around and, even though I knew I was moving at the end of May, it allowed me to use April to try and alter and refashion unused items in my closet or donate them. I'm a former deadline reporter, I need that guillotine hanging over my head. And guess what I learned with that deadline inspired stitching? I can sew apparel. I make plenty of mistakes, but Yes I Can.

Since I've been deficient in the photo department, a photo of the final day in Me-Made-May, starring the (wrinkled) Marie skirt I learned to love:



Several other bloggers have chimed in on MMM lessons, so this is a bit redundant, but here's some lessons/thoughts.

-I've loved reading other blogs and being inspired by the handiwork of others. Because sewing requires work and craftsmanship (and shortcuts can be costly!) I admire it all the more. These women learned to sew, to sew well, have gone through trial and error and came out the other side with fabulous things to show for it. It shows me, as a beginner, that patience and work and a little playfulness pays off.

-I like dresses and skirts. Who knew? And I like Burda patterns. The sizing, for me, is perfect.

-I've learned that I need to be less cheap with my fabric, because if I'm going to create a quality garment, I need to use quality materials (and by "quality" I mean no-longer-scraping-the-bottom-of-the-barrel). I buy a lot of clearance fabric and fabric at thrift stores, but now that I'm actually making wearable items, I sometimes feel that cost in other ways. If I don't love it, don't buy it just 'cause it's cheap (so obvious, but why is it so hard?). And if I'm making something I know I will use frequently, I should just pay for the fabric I really want.

-I need to find some tried-and-true patterns that are reliably versatile, stylish and well-fitting.

-This is wisdom from Amy of Quixotic Pixels (and quoted by Zoe), "When clothes come 'hot off the sewing machine,' I tend to be hyper alert for fit problems and/or construction failures. If I focus on those things too much, my home-sewn clothes get relegated to the back of the closet." Yes! That's exactly right. MMM forced me wear my clothes and guess what? Like RTW, after a few jaunts out, I don't even notice.

-Speaking of not noticing, others didn't notice my clothes were handmade either. In fact, I got compliments!

-Even though I've definitely had some fails this month, I've never been happier about the way I dress. I feel more confident, more like my clothes are a reflection of me, which is what this blog is about: Finding my style, one garment at a time.

Whew! That's a lot. But see? One challenge, lots of lessons. I'd wished, especially looking at the photos in the Flickr pool, that I could've participated at a higher level and lucky for me, Zoe has created Self-Stitched September! That's right, we're doing it again in three month's time.

Here's my challenge:

I, Ali of http://wardrobereimagined.blogspot.com, sign up as a participant of Self-Stitched-September. I endeavour to wear at least one handmade item of clothing every day for the duration of September 2010.


My MMM personal challenge included altered and refashioned items, so I'm upping the ante. If I use an old garment for its fabric, I'll still consider it homemade rather than refashioned, though I reserve bragging rights for reuse.

So what's on the sewing agenda before September? Still whipping up those Ruby Shorts with Lisette of Vintage or Bust (does anyone know what size the buttons are? These BurdaStyle instructions just kill me). I've joined Cecili's wonderful Japanese top sew-along. Join us! You know you want one, with all those Japanese designs making their way around the internet, you can now have your very own.

And some of the MMM ladies were interested in doing a Summer Essentials Sew-along. I'd love it if you'd join us! Are there five garments you'd rather not live without this summer? More on the sew-along in my next post.

May-love to you all.

8 comments:

  1. Hi Ali! Thanks for the awesome post about your lessons from Me-Made-May it was fascinating, enlightening and heartening to read. It's so fantasic that you felt happier weraing your handmade clothing rather than your RTW garments. I received a very unpleasant comment on my blog a couple of days ago (which I deleted because I didn't like the bad juju hanging around) saying that the author (a non-MMM participant, I should add) had grown to hate MMM more and more as the month went on as they feel it encouraged the aouthors of previously techinically useful blogs to become vacuous style blogs, and that overall they felt my contribution to the sewing community was a not positive. Reading posts like yours really makes me see that so many people have got so much out of the MMM idea, that that person is far in the minority! Sorry for blabbering, you are awesome and I can't wait to hear the details of the summer essentials sew-along. Oh, and as for Ruby shorts, you can really use any size buttons you want (I've made three pairs now each with different sized buttons) you just need to make the size of the buttonholes correspond. Although I wouldn't recommend using any too small (don't make much of an impact and the buttons are such a feature of this design) or too big as they don't perform their function so well. Looking forward to seeing yours!

    Zoe xxxxxxxx

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  2. Sorry for all the grammer mistakes in my previous comment, I haven't been awake for long! x

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  3. Ooh! I'm glad someone bought that one...I was going to if no one else did, so thanks!
    I'm glad Me-Made-May has so affected you!

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  4. I have loved reading your Me-Made-May posts, i didn't manage at all well but have found it so inspiring xx

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  5. MMM has made me think more about creating things that I will wear, enjoy wearing and feel confident wearing. At the moment I'm not allowed to work, study or even do volunteer work - add into that mix the fact that I'm not even sure yet if I can stay here with my husband while my visa is being processed - so I have to find things to do to stop me going crazy. My parents bought us a new sewing machine recently (not that I'm a total noob) and I've learnt pretty quickly that making something for the sake of making it is just plain awful. MMM has really inspired me to learn more so that I can make wearable clothing for myself and others.

    I'm really shocked to hear that somebody would post something like that on Zoe's blog. I feel like MMM is going to help alot of people start to sew more, learn more and be confident enough to wear their handmade wares. How is that a bad thing for the sewing community?

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  6. Thanks for your wonderful comments!

    Fairy princess, so glad you're also inspired to make clothing! And I agree -- how is that a bad thing for the sewing community?

    And Zoe, bad juju indeed! I'm actually pretty appalled. I'll never understand why people go out of their way to make others feel that their genuine efforts are merely superficial. That's why I can't read some style blogs -- it's some particularly catty commenters and not the authors who turn me off and make me believe the whole enterprise is superficial.

    And challenges like this aren't superficial at all. For people who are frequently tied to sewing machines with a steaming iron nearby, can't we enjoy the fruits of our labor sometimes? And what's the point of making clothes if we're not going to wear them? And don't clothes reflect our personalities and equip us in our lives?

    Anyway, my sentiments are obvious! I could stand on this soapbox forever. MMM has been wonderful if only to connect me with all of you (sewing, like all my creative pursuits, tends toward the solitary). I think there's plenty evidence of the worth for activities and communities like this. :)

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  7. Totally feel you on the 'buy appropriate and nicer fabrics for clothing' sentiment! Actually, there are some decent places online to get apparel fabric ... I think. Haven't really really tried it out yet so I can't vouch for it, but this lady makes tons of clothing and she mentions a couple sites that she uses:

    http://amandasadventuresinsewing.blogspot.com/2010/05/mail-call.html

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  8. Thanks Ali and Fairy Princess, I appreciate you having my back on this! I needed to vent and hear someone (who is actually involved in sewing and MMM, so not just my boyfriend!) tell me that the commenter was out of wack with the reality. I didn't want to write about the comment on my blog because it would seem like they had won by making me justify myself. Yesterday I came to realise that even if only two people have had a positive experience from following or participating in MMM, then it out-balances thier view point, and there have been many who have enjoyed it. Thanks again ladies! xxxx

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