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20 May 2011

Fast Fashion, My Sister's Closet, and Other Binges

So you might remember that when I was packing my suitcase to visit my family last month, I only stuffed it one-third full. It's because when I'm ready to return, I'm inevitably sitting on my suitcase with all my weight, trying to close it. Like this:

I just accrue stuff when I'm with my family. More than anything it's a testament to the fact that my day-to-day living, an ocean away, is fairly mindful. I rarely shop retail, and now, with my Fashion on the Ration challenge, am getting very good at being mindful even about my thrift store and fabric purchases. Even so, Month 3 into the challenge and I feel like I've been on a binge.

Exhibit 1: When you have a fast-fashion loving sister who's your size

I approached her giveaway pile after two friends had picked through it and I only took 1/3 of what was there. This girl can shop. I can't blame her, she does work in retail and gets a discount on most of her clothes. And it's been exciting to see her begin to approach her wardrobe with a level of mindfulness about her body. Though we have the same bust size, she's pear-shaped and is beginning to think about what cuts flatter her.

Exhibit 2: ... And she also likes to buy you stuff

My sister bought me two items for my birthday, a lovely beaded cardigan at The Gap and these lovely heels from the Clark's outlet.

Exhibit 3: The perfect cardigan

I went into this challenge thinking about investing in a few things I'd wear over and over. The shoes from my sister above have already received a great deal of use—the perfect heel for summer. And then I found this cardigan at the Banana Republic outlet, slim fitting, hip-length with a retro-feel from a slightly scalloped edge. I've also worn this plenty. Coupons spent: 5

Exhibit 4: Don't you forget about me

When I was home, I rediscovered some items I received free at the flea market, including a ready to wear skirt and three items that I can cut up for fabric. This is what I couldn't fit in the suitcase last visit but managed to squeeze them in this time.

Exhibit 5: The internets if full of beautiful, generous sewing bloggers

I was luck enough to win this green jersey from the Sewing Princess giveaway. It's such a gorgeous color and every hour I change my plans for it, but it will be a knit dress for summer.

Exhibit 6: Even the classics get passed on

No photo here, but I also took a trip and saw my Aunt the weekend after I returned home. She received a stack of fine clothing from my cousin, who got it from the mother of one of her students (four times removed). What luck!

There was a stack of cashmere tops I couldn't part with. These were all classic pieces that I felt could last me forever: two Ralph Lauren cashmere boatneck tanks in cream and navy and two special occasion wool sweaters that I likely won't wear often, but will be perfect those few times a year I need to attend a wedding etc.

In all, it's just a whole lotta stuff. So what's the grand tally?

Garments in ready-to-wear condition acquired:
Tops 10
Cardigans 2
Dresses 1
Bottoms 1
Skirt 1
Shoes 1

Garments that can be either repaired for wear or can be cut up for fabric: 4

Total: 20

Wow! And 19 of them were free-to-me. I actually think this is why I'm so dead set on regularly purging your closet because I often find myself on the receiving end of clothing generosity and thus an excess of clothes. For a moment I felt bad, that I was going against the very thing I had set out to do this year: to have more with less.

But I'll admit that I feel playful: These are clothes that I can experiment with and pass on to better owners if they no longer serve me after this season. For the gems I keep, they will become an integral part of my wardrobe. It's a low investment way to test out my style hypotheses.

But what about you? How do you work the grab-bag of giveaway clothes into your personal style? And how do you keep your closet in check?

Fashion on the Ration check-in: 5 coupons spent for cardigan, current tally 55 coupons.

7 comments:

  1. I feel like the use of sharing among each other is very much in the spirit of the fashion on a ration challenge. It's also a great opportunity to bond with people and create an environment where the product is less important than the relationship. Much of my clothing comes from hand-me-downs or sharing with family who are the same size. It's nice because sometimes we can reclaim giveaways a year or so later. If I try to keep purchases down but keep exploration and experimentation up, I think it's a great way to rotate a wardrobe. Give and let give. ;)

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  2. Wow, what luck for you! So much fun to get new-to-you things, especially when they're given freely.

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  3. Love the shoes! I am not at all the same size as any of my friends or family so I´ve rarely experienced what you are describing above. I love the idea, though. It´s a good way for clothing to get a second (or thrid) life!

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  4. Oh no, blogger ate my comment... :P
    It's great that your family and friends support you so much with your resolution to buy less! It'll be fun to see you integrate these pieces into your wardrobe and decide which ones are keepers. Some of those tops look really cute and I love the idea of scallops on a cardi!

    I don't do a lot of garment swapping with my mom or sister, even though we are similar sizes. Possibly because we've never thought about it, but our styles also are quite different. I do garment swaps with my friends, and it's great when a lot of people come because we can circle-swap. :) Some swapped garments work in my wardrobe as they are, but if not, they go on the refashion pile and I've even cut up one of last year's skirts to make a top.

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  5. This has only ever happened to me with maternity clothes, when I had a fabulous windfall from a deeply styish gal who subsequently emigrated to New Zealand! I don't know if I could cope with regular deluges of clothing - I would feel too guilty to sew! I am just not comfortable with a bulging closet.

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  6. I think your project is so interesting. Not much of a swapper recipient but I do regularly purge and pass. Most of what I pass, interestingly, is RTW that I thought was fab at the time of purchase, then later not so much. I essentially gave away all of my fall purchases by Nov of last year. This year, no advance purchases.

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  7. I also swap clothes with my sis; it's like going shopping. Can't wait to see your green dress!
    As for keeping my closet under control, well, moving countries and packing helps. I will clean up a bit now that summer is here!
    Can u still fit all your goodies in your closet? ;)

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