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| Mallrats |
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| "in the nineties, there were two distinct aesthetics that defined the decade. two distinct schools of fashion that found favor with the women of those times. one who preferred beautiful simplicity through rigor and technique, and the woman who used fashion to realize the fantastical." —Source |
For style aficiandoes—and sewists who can relive eras through needle and thread—this might sound like a personal hell. People hate on the 90s the way I hate all that 80s ease. But I’m starting to wonder—no matter how much I adore other eras—if I’m really just a 90s girl, all growed up?
See, the 90s was when I started to express myself through my clothing. Sure, I was clad in t-shirts and jeans most of the time, but I wasn’t shopping at the GAP. I blew my scant spending money at thrift stores, raided my father’s closet and stole all of my grandmother’s cardigans. I wore a neon pink 70s mini-dress to a school dance with insanely high wedges. There was a purple swing number that made me feel I was in the 40s. Most days, under the tropical sun, I wore men’s flannel shirts with old lady cardigans and loose, fraying jeans. Vans and maryjanes and t-straps. Chunky heels and chokers.
We’re not talking Clueless here, with its privilege and knee-high cuteness; we’re talking Empire Records and Reality Bites and the irreverance and life-questioning and annoying, arrogant irony. I saw Reality Bites a gazillion times (and still own it).
This looks like people I know. How we dressed then, how we dress now. Either taking too many chances or too few.
I HAD to have this shirt Winona Ryder’s wearing (I really wanted bad boy Troy Dyer, but settled for the shirt). I owned a similar one for more than a decade and just recently donated it.
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| Empire Records |
What would you call this? It’s not quite grunge, not quite all Doc
Martens and Eddy-Vedder-I-Shop-At-the-Army-Surplus. It’s classic
mid-90s: well-worn casual clothes, mixing masculine elements with the
feminine, some funkiness thrown in with shoes and vintage. Not a lot of
leg and boobage. The best expressions of femininity in the 90s, to me,
was lined with badass-ness or rock-in-roll. Floaty dresses and
shit-kickin’ boots.
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| My So-Called Life |
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| Courtney Love |
I’m not saying I’m having a 90s rebirth and am going to go out and buy every last rayon floral dress I can find. Still, no matter what I can produce out of my sewing machine—vintage or contemporary—I keep returning to things I started to love then: I like my crotch rise higher and my shirt hems shorter. I can’t pass a pair of maryjanes without touching them. I love minimalist, casual clothes with occasional forays into vintage and color. My favorite dresses look like they could be the underwear of yesteryear—strappy and flowy slip dresses. I still love conservative cardigans and undershirts (but they won't be sheer "wifebeaters" atop a black bra, what was I thinking?).
Maybe I'm just getting old enough to become nostalgic, shaking my head at ultra-ultra low rise jeans, voluminous racer-back tanks and whatever is massively popular among teens today. But this clarity gives me some guidance in my sewing and shopping—understanding my 90s preferences, just better fitting and better looking.
What about you? No matter what you think of the 90s, was there a time when you set your preferences for the way you dress? How so?


















Most definetly I was a 90s girl, ditsy print dresses with DM boots, big masculine cardigans covering feminine clothes. Black eyeshadow (wtf?) lots of jewellery, pearls were my fav clashing with the DMs. It was a juxtoposition of
ReplyDeletemale and females. Unfortunately my current style is more of the t shirt in every colour, I trying to go for the more feminine side as I was back then but without the boots!
I think I had black eyeshadow, too ;) And yes, after years of wearing jeans, I'm returning to more feminine shapes!
DeleteI've always loved Courtney Love's style (back then), before her Celebrity Skin phase. I really like the small floral print dresses mixed with fishnets and tough boots. I also like how unstructured, unstaged and spontaneous everything looked.
ReplyDeleteAgreed! What a great way to put it: unstaged and spontaneous. That's definitely something I aim for in my style. And you do such a great job at pulling off things like floral print dresses and a dose of badass :)
Deletei think i'm around the same age as you, so i am very familiar with 90s style. i wore a lot of plaid with romantic flowy stuff (remember poet's blouses?) i can't think of black small-scale floral dresses without remembering my teenage years.
ReplyDeletei did actually like the CK look of classic simplicity but i find it hard to separate it from the heroin-chic look of the models that was so popular with Kate Moss and the like.
Oh goodness, poet's blouses! And agreed, the heroin chic was terrifying. Such pretty silhouettes, bad delivery.
DeleteMy middle/high school years were firmly entrenched in the 90s, and I'm still rather fond of that era (the music in particular). I think it was definitely the time where I was formulating my own style, which was this odd mishmash of learning to sew my own clothes, discovering the wonder that is Goodwill, my parents basically giving me free rein in fashion as long as I stuck with the budget they allowed me, and having to fit within the dress code at my school (where blue jeans and t-shirts were a big no-no.) So I made button-down shirts and long skirts in funky prints, wore vintage 70s jackets that I acquired from the thrift store and my mom's cast-offs, started my long-term affair with beaded jewelry, and developed as great a distaste for clothes with the brand names plastered all over them (namely the GAP and Abercrombie) as I did for the Britney/Backstreet Boys-type music that had gotten popular by the end of the decade. (I always loved the alt-rock from then.) I've forgiven the GAP enough to own some of their jeans, but they were bought at Goodwill, so...
ReplyDeleteYeah, I guess I haven't changed those loves too much since the 90s. Just a slightly more artsy-professional take on them.
Here here. I think the only GAP thing I've bought retail are the jeans that I've since copied. I had a 70s corduroy jacket my friends and I would steal back and forth from each other. And agreed on the late 90s -- so different from the mid 90s. Style was so manicured, so young, no pushing the status quo. But that's my bias -- I'm sure some late 90s folks would have some words for me, but I definitely don't want Britney to hit me baby one more time.
DeleteRe: "formulating my own style" I think that's it. No matter what decade we're from, perhaps we realized certain preferences at a certain age that stayed with us (even if the preference was 'I hate the clothes of this era')? Just a thought.
90's girl through and through!! For V-Day I asked my hubby to please load all my HS CDs onto iTunes, which he did for me. Love me some Collective Soul and Smashing Pumpkins! :) I had the FLOWERED DMs! Ah yeah. I lived in flannel shirts (unbuttoned over t-shirts) and baggy jeans. I also liked the dresses with boots. Heh, memory lane. Thanks, that was fun! :)
ReplyDeleteMusic was such a part of that time, too, it's sort of fun to think about, isn't it? We ain't got no place to go, let's go to a punk rock show.
DeleteWhere I grew up, we were voting for songs in ballot boxes at surf shops, listening to bad music CDs sledgehammered on air. I have no doubt that the music I listened to (or really, the music my friends listened to/played) had a huge impact on our style. And I've such a soft spot for music from that time :)
This post has really made me nostalgic. I, for one, loved the ninties. I think anyone who was in high school at the time does. The clothes and ESPECIALLY the music. My so-called life was my favorite show. I didn't get to shop at "the mall" since I didnt have the money. But it made no diference since it was so cool to buy your clothes at Goodwill. One of my favorite outfits was a pair of my dad's old denim overalls paired with my brother's XLT white satin button down with mandarin collar, worn unbuttoned with a black tank underneath. My favorite jeans were an old pair of men's Levis I got from a friends brother. I wore them to death. I don't really think I have a style now, but back then,I basically looked like the photos above. I don't think that was intentional, it just happened organically.
DeleteOveralls! Yes, I had some too. I loved how it was cool to shop at the Goodwill, so hard to go back to shopping retail (for me) when there's amazing finds to be had.
DeleteI think I might be just a smidge younger than you---I saw all this, but never quite embraced most of it. I spend the 90s looking for low-rise jeans before they were available (and cutting off the waistbands to create them if I could get away with it), hating the baggy, boxy remnants of 80s even while I loved the more romantic bits. I was a thrifter, of course, but we had always been in my family---my mother didn't believe in buying expensive new clothing for children who were just going to grow out of it. I did mourn the crop-top fiercely when it became passe in the late 90s, and I was a bit hesitatnt over the 70s revival that marked my last year of high-school, but eventually came around to it and that's probably where I'll always feel most comfortable...
ReplyDeleteAnd we of the blogosphere may not spend much time talking about the 80s "vintage", but I can tell you the teens around here have been living it for several years now... my 14-year-old niece lives in pieces that could have been teleported out of 1985.
Well, Tanit, you can rock those low rise and look fab ;)
DeleteAnd yes! I see so much 80s in teen fashion now, neon and baggy shirts. I think I have one pattern I love from that era, but it's otherwise not a fit. :0
I truly did not care one bit about clothes until late in my high school years. So I think I missed a lot of this. Although I did own a couple pairs of knock off doc martens. College and beyond is really when I started caring more about what I wore. I grew up with two older brothers and my mom worked nights, so I think that had a lot to do with it. I spent every night with "the boys" and fashion was never a topic of conversation. I remember wearing lots of plaid flannel shirts, thrift store jeans and my brother's old one stars.
ReplyDeleteComing from an all-girl family, I can only imagine! We spent way too much shopping and still do -- thrifting-cool probably became a perfect outlet given all my clothing desires.
DeleteAh, I remember the 90s. My personal vice was "My So-Called Life"... And, though I can't remember much of what I wore, I'm pretty sure it was much of the above.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of My So-Called Life, it's kind of neat to see Claire Danes style change over time, too.
DeleteAh, you make me nostalgic Ali, I used to wear clompy lace up boots and little dresses too. Often with cycling shorts underneath! Also dungaree shorts and cut off jeans. Later in the late 90s I was into clubbing and wore a series of miniscule outfits - silver jeans and white bikini top spring to mind! Never again. xx
ReplyDeleteSilver jeans and white bikini top! Sounds scandalous, mama ;) You secret is safe with us.
DeleteIt's the Oscars tonight and we've been joking that we should done our finest. If I had my old prom dress -- a crazy silver backless number with a swirl of sequins, I may wear it. On the couch.
I was born in 85, and I have to say that I still think "90s GAP ad" is an enviable aesthetic. So simple and utilitarian and unfussy! Neutrals paired with neutrals and other neutrals! Knits! Handy pockets! Pants you can dance in! And I understand that "unisex" is not a fun aesthetic if you feel like it's mandatory, or if your body wants to be Joan Holloway and all the retailers think you're a Kate Moss, but I've always liked the boyishness of mainline 90s women's clothes. Yes, reclaiming complex femininity enacting gender autonmously blah blah, but I have to say I still secretly think I'll get to grow up to look like this. Birkenstocks and all.
ReplyDeleteAhh! What a blast from the past -- I totally remember that commercial. And agreed, Claire, I still find it an enviable aesthetic -- I know they're supposedly "boring" pieces, especially since we've so many options either sewing or shopping, but I love something I can move in and goes with everything. :)
DeleteRight there with you on all those touchstones- I own both Reality Bites and MSCL too- such time capsules! But yeah, while I appreciated the simplicity of the 'higher style' going on in more professional circles, style-wise 90s on the ground for me were all about trying to find those perfect vintage thrifted Levis (rumors started flying that the "good ones" from the 60s/70s had all gone to Japan once they started to be hard to find), and other vintage togs- I had everything from 60s shirtdresses to 70s ski sweaters and contrast piped penguin golf shirts and an array of underwear as outerwear in the regular rotation, I do admit. Thrifting was a source of entertainment/socialization at least as much as it was about acquiring clothing per se; so much fun looking for buried treasure.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny how I do have those two different associations for 90s fashion side by side in my head- the clean-lines, clean-color CK kind of thing actually pops up first as "what was out there in the culture", and then the really eclectic youth thing that was more everyday and familiar.
I have Reality Bites on VHS at my parent's place! I loved the movie and the music....and the boy! I also loved Singles...back in 94 I even went to the bar where they shot the movie in Seattle. Makes me nostalgic, it feels like yesterday. I love the simple Gap style from those years and even more the Giorgio Armani style (except I could never afford it). I am happy I can now make the clothes I like
ReplyDeleteHeh, now I'm feeling old. I don't think I seriously started buying my own clothes or thinking about what I was wearing (aside from comfort factor) until the beginning of the 2000s... and even then, we didn't have charity shops in town and only a couple of clothing shops.
ReplyDeleteI definitely feel nostalgic about the 90s. I didn't think about clothes much back then, I just wore them. And then things got complicated for me - I lost the effortlessness of my teenage years. But despite all the nostalgia, there is actually a fair bit I like about 90s fashions. I like that the clothes aren't too obvious, that they seem original rather than overly-referenced, and I do also find the minimalist CK-looks refreshing.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I miss the 1990s so hard it hurts a bit!!!! Thanks for this trip down mempry lane. In the UK, we were heavily influenced by the whole grunge/my-so-called-life thing, but had a big 'ol slice of Britpop thrown in there plus lots of 60s and 70s vintage. Oh, going out in an old slip dress you'd just bought for 40p, with a big cardigan, ripped tights, Mary-janes covered in glitter and a kid's tiara!!! xxx
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