Yuck. My beach-like weather has turned into rain and wind, leaving me indoors. And when I'm home, curled up with laptop or book or knitting project, I might be wearing my Lola or I might be wearing what passes as my pajamas. After all, lounging will eventually lead to sleeping. I kind of look like this:
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| The sleeping uniform, more or less |
I have never really worn real pajamas -- plaid pants and button down tops. Nor have I ever done dressing gowns or shirts or chemises. It's all sweatpants and yoga pants and old t-shirts, cut-up or hole-ridden. All comfort, no style.
But on my path to making less, I've been thinking about what would make me feel luxurious and pretty underthings and sleepy things are at the top of the list. Really, who wants to look like this:
When you could look like this:
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| Holla! |
What I'm trying to mentally work out is how to get closer to the latter while feeling like the former?
I could get jiggy with something like this:
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| From Free People, years ago |
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| 1940s Pattern |
- Fabric needs to be comfy and breathable -- knits would work or a drapey woven. Preferably wrinkle free.
- I'm always cold -- little shorts and short skirts may be too little to keep me warm (but I dream of tap pants!). Likewise, I don't want anything that looks funky when layered with a sweater or with socks.
- Rompers are out of the question. I may have to use the restroom on occasion.
- On the fence about loose A-line-y nightgowns that most likely will end up scrunched up around my armpits in the a.m. (I move a lot!)
But what about you? What do you wear to bed? Or: what would you wear around the house and to bed that would be both comfortable and stylish?
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I wear yoga pants, a fitted tee and a fleece all in black or grey around the house. To bed pajamas from women's secret, a Spanish brand, honkemoller Dutch brand and etam lingerie a French chain. They are all black, white, grey with No or subtle print (a pair of cool print red pants got in there). It's long sleeved and long pants except for summer. I was facing the same dilemma and decided neutral colors, cotton/knit mix from fairly cheap brands were the way to go. Presentable yet comfy...and not expensive. Clearly I don't sew my own ;)
ReplyDeleteWow, those brands look way cooler (and more reasonable) than what I could get in your average US department store. Neutrals are probably a good bet -- they'll last forever. I'm actually thinking of making a little night-dress out of the fabric I won in your giveaway :)
DeleteI generally wear cotton knit pajamas. Have made a couple of sets of shorty pajamas for summer, but mostly just wear store-bought ones. Like you, I'm not a nightgown girl because they just ride up and leave my bottom half cold anyway. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's crazy -- I wake up thinking I might as well have sleep naked! ;)
DeleteI think a lot about sewing "loungewear", because I don't feel nice in what I lounge and sleep in. And the stuff in stores is too expensive, in my opinion, and the pants usually shrink up in length. I would like to sew some yoga-type pants in fabrics with part stretch and maybe in silky fabrics with matching camisoles or tshirts.
ReplyDeleteI love the idea of silk fabric pants (to mix it up with my yoga pants!) I also think silky camis are so elegant.
DeleteI'm totally with you on this dilemma. I'm ALWAYS cold too, so I tend to wear pleecey pyjamas, sometimes with a vest or T-shirt underneath and big fluffy socks. The sleeping T-shirts and vests are all handmade (the T-shirts were my first forays into sewing with stretchy jersey, but looked too rubbish to wear outdoors!). I also totally agree that whatever is worn HAS to be comfortable, usually with some stretch, or so old and washed out that the are really soft anyway. I'm really intrigued to see hwat solutions you come up with. Maybes look at the loungewear section on the Anthropologie website? If anyone can make loungewear pretty and desireable, it's them isn't it?! Good luck with your quest Ali xxx
ReplyDeleteAnthropologie's a good place to start, thanks for the suggestion. It's funny -- I also wear some of my imperfect knits to bed! Clearly, I'm trying to upgrade, but it's such a great way to not waste.
DeleteI'm in this same boat---I have a couple of self-stitched nighties and they're cute but not exactly *warm*
ReplyDeleteI actually really like the look of yoga pants for loungewear, so I'm thinking of making some of those. I'm still a bit stuck on the tops, though...
And you've been doing such a great job at making shorts and camis for your daughters! I bet you'd make some stylin' yoga pants. I actually really like yoga pants, too, I just think the ones I have now are not very flattering (a handmedown that's two sizes too big!).
DeleteI go to Hush (UK website) for inspiration of this kind.
ReplyDeleteAs for what I wear myself... um... well I start the night wearing at least two t shirts and a jumper as I am generally freezing when I head for bed... but then in the middle of the night I start to boil over and shed layer after layer until its just me and a sheet. I think its my hormones. Such is middle age!
Goodness me! I could build an entire wardrobe from Hush's Loungewear section -- good looking comfy basics. I have that problem inbetween seasons as temperatures fluctuate -- I hate having to wake up to tear off layers!
DeleteI sleep in oversized t-shirts (the promotional kind, from my au-pair year, LA, a windsurfing class I took, from my uni...) and fun print boxershorts most of the year, although I have a couple of pjs for winter (I'm not hot on sleeping in a button-up, though...) And knit socks. *g* My loungewear consists of yoga pants, t-shirts and hoodies most of the time, although in summer I consider knit dresses and skirts fair game. I'm thinking some cute knit (floral?) prints and elastic lace might make the yoga pants and t-shirt uniform cuter. Those really wide, gathered-at-the-ankle pants might be fun in a drapey knit, too....
ReplyDeleteI didn't know you were an au-pair! Where were you? I'm actually thinking some knit socks (or booties with a little maryjane straps) might be part of the answer.
DeleteI live on the East Coast and have yet to manage to find an apartment with HVAC, so my "loungewear" tends to be pretty seasonal. In the winter I wear flannel shirts and long-sleeve t-shirts and a fleece bathrobe; in the summer I wear that best of heat-dispersing outfits, tap pants and a drop-waist sleeveless dress.
ReplyDeleteI have this dream that I'll make myself some tunic-y housedresses in warm fabrics that I can wear over silk long underwear, for slightly more dignity in winterwear than greeting the mailman in a fluffy pink bathrobe. We'll see if I get to it.
Flannel *pants*, I mean. Pants! Also flannel shirts. There's a lot of flannel in general.
DeleteI lived on the East Coast for six years, Claire and I hear you. Bone chilling winters, insanely humid summers. I used to sleep with my feet literally out the window in summers because I thought I would boil over. I love the idea of tunic-y housedresses and long silk underwear! Lovely and comfy. :)
DeleteI am a pyjama and vest top sleeper. Shorts in summer. I just find nightdresses uncomfortable. Currently I wear me made pj trousers made from thrifted duvet covers and a vest. Not too scruffy but certainly not glam! I like the look of pretty nighties but not the reality.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you all the way here. Maybe make something with sleeves, even if they're only short. I find that I can snuggle but my shoulders and the back of my neck (I sleep on my front, starfish style, think Sandra Bullock in The Proposal) gets cold so I prefer wearing something that'll keep that area covered. I don't like full trousers either, I toss and turn a fair bit apparently and I always end up taking whatever I'm wearing from the waist down off because the front ends up at the back :S
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to seeing what you decide to go with!